Which Two Of You

A Grown Child And A Parent

The conversation two grown people never quite had, laid out so it finally can be.

Imagine your mother reading who you became, in your own words, and handing you who she became back.

A Field Guide

How To Read Me.
How To Read You.

  1. IWho I Am Now
  2. IIWhen You Give Advice
  3. IIIWhat I Wish We Did More

A page each. Traded. Kept.

DadHow To Read Me

Who I Am Now

Older than I feel, and prouder of you than I have ever managed to say.

When You Give Advice

It's the only way I know to say I'm proud of you. I'll try saying it plainly.

What I Wish We Did More

Ring me for no reason. I would love a call with nothing wrong.

Example
SamHow To Read Me

Who I Am Now

I'm not the kid who needed rescuing any more. Ask me what I think first.

When You Give Advice

I hear that you think I got it wrong. Sometimes I just wanted you to listen.

What I Wish We Did More

Fishing. Or any long drive where we say nothing and it is still easy.

Example

SamDad

Yours, Until You Hand It Over.

Two adults, on equal footing. Nothing is shared until each of you chooses it.

Which Two Of You

Know Me.Helping people understand one another.

Read me.