Which Two Of You

A Teenager And A Parent

One page that says how to read them, in their own words. One page handed back.

Imagine your teenager handing you one page that says how to read them. Imagine handing one back.

A Field Guide

How To Read Me.
How To Read You.

  1. IWhen I Go Quiet
  2. IIWhen You Say Fine
  3. IIIWhat I Need From You

A page each. Traded. Kept.

MumHow To Read Me

When I Go Quiet

I'm usually worrying about money, never about you.

When You Say Fine

I hear "leave me alone", so I do. Then I miss you all evening.

What I Need From You

One real sentence a day. Any one at all.

Example
MayaHow To Read Me

When I Go Quiet

I'm not angry with you. I'm full. Sit near me and don't ask yet. I'll come back.

When You Say Fine

I hear that you're disappointed in me. If you mean tired, say tired.

What I Need From You

Knock, then wait for me to answer.

Example

MayaMum

Yours, Until You Hand It Over.

Their page is theirs. A parent reads only what their teenager chooses to hand over.

Which Two Of You

Know Me.Helping people understand one another.

Read me.